we had a really interesting object lesson in a class today (kudos to Claire Canfield for this activity)
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhtiVTQczLuRH6KzajR4xMDl3UZziNGzc6TpcsDeCbyCyzMHsCpRws_9hrCIMa_Nn9FE08CYmNuwOGDF_2EeQxmGpm47AGh_o6KaCD-hCQY3rm_Ndi5i-TsDQ5A5LoVQqcbleMZLs9iqoo/s400/RPT+Blog+Template.png)
to start the activity, we partnered up, and each held the end of the most uncomfortable, scratchy rope i have ever held in my hand. then each person took a turn answering the following question about a grudge or other conflict they have not been able to get over:
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhtiVTQczLuRH6KzajR4xMDl3UZziNGzc6TpcsDeCbyCyzMHsCpRws_9hrCIMa_Nn9FE08CYmNuwOGDF_2EeQxmGpm47AGh_o6KaCD-hCQY3rm_Ndi5i-TsDQ5A5LoVQqcbleMZLs9iqoo/s400/RPT+Blog+Template.png)
to start the activity, we partnered up, and each held the end of the most uncomfortable, scratchy rope i have ever held in my hand. then each person took a turn answering the following question about a grudge or other conflict they have not been able to get over: